Community guidelines
Date honestly
Membership is for single adults ages 21–35 who have no children. Use accurate information and recent photos of yourself. Do not impersonate anyone or misrepresent your relationship or parental status. Self-reported information and approved selfies are not proof of identity or age.
Respect consent and boundaries
No harassment, threats, hate, stalking, sexual coercion, unsolicited explicit content or sharing someone’s private information. A match is not consent. Respect a refusal, an unmatch or a block.
No scams or automated abuse
No requests for money, financial scams, commercial solicitation, spam, bots, account sharing or attempts to evade a ban. Never share passwords, verification codes or financial information.
Report safety concerns
Report harassment, threats, scams, fake profiles, inappropriate photos or other violations from a member card or chat. Block someone to end contact. Authorized safety staff review reports; optional keyword screening does not enforce automatically. Staff may restrict or permanently ban accounts with a recorded reason.
Meet with care
Choose a public place, tell someone you trust, arrange your own transport and do not share your address. For immediate danger, contact local emergency services. NOKIDS is not an emergency service.